Posted in Lifestyle, Mom Life

Top 3 Things You Need When Taking a Roadtrip with Kids

We’re taking our second summer road trip this week. We’re driving 10 hours with four kids to see my in-laws.

How do you maintain your sanity during those long hours on the road? Be prepared with entertainment and snacks, and be prepared to make frequent stops. Kids have short attention spans and small bladders. Plan as much of the trip as you can to give them (and you) breaks from the road.

1. Entertainment— drawing pads, iPads, their favorite toys. Start low-tech and move up to electronics as the trip goes on. Our car turns into a concert. For the most part, that tends to soothe my crew. My seven year old also likes to follow along the route with his iPad and announce where we are.

2. A fully stocked car— that includes snacks, blankets, toys, first aid kit, plastic bags & extra clothes (in case of spills or car sickness). Have everything you could need within reach and out of the trunk.

3. Frequent Stops— with toddlers, we count on stopping every 2-3 hours. I like to have a general plan that includes possible rest stops and when we’re going to eat. I tend to choose gas stations with restaurants, or chains that I am familiar with. They tend to have cleaner bathrooms. And, of course, we will always hit up a Bucee’s if it’s on our route.

What are some of your tips for the road? What’s the longest road trip you’ve ever taken? I’d love to know.

Posted in Affirmations, Mom Life

21 Affirmations for Kids

Positive thinking is a powerful tool for everyone. Positivity can improve your health, help you manage stress, and make better choices. It’s a good skill for kids to learn early on because it’s tough being a kid. The goal is to teach kids to focus on positive things. Positive thinking starts with the voice in our head, so we need to train it to speak life.

I’ve put together a list of 21 life-imbuing messages for kids.

  1. I am enough.
  2. All of my problems have solutions.
  3. I can control my own happiness.
  4. I can get through anything.
  5. I believe in myself.
  6. I am proud of myself.
  7. If I fall, I will get back up again.
  8. I am whole.
  9. I only compare myself to myself.
  10. I can do anything.
  11. It is enough to do my best.
  12. I can be anything I want to be.
  13. I accept who I am.
  14. Today is going to be an awesome day.
  15. It’s okay to make mistakes.
  16. No matter how hard it is, I can do it.
  17. I trust in my decisions.
  18. I can change the world.
  19. I am smart.
  20. I choose my own attitude.
  21. I am important.

“Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs 18:21)

Posted in Mom Life

Raising a Toddler Joyfully


Take Time For Yourself

Have a little you-time every morning before the kids get up. Even if it’s only for a short time, do something that you enjoy. The goal is to make you feel good so you can start the day off with positive energy. Don’t carry yesterday’s perceived fails into today.


Here are some ideas to do every morning:

  • Pray/ Meditate
  • Read a good book (or blog)
  • Call up a friend
  • Do something creative: paint, draw, write
  • Have your favorite cup of joe
  • Get in some exercise to boost those endorphins
  • Take a hot bath or shower

Accept the Messes

They will only be this little for a little while, let them explore and make messes. Instead of thinking about how messy it will be, why don’t you play along and make things less stressful for both of you?

Your baby will be happier if you aren’t so obsessed with keeping everything tidy at all times. Instead play with them. Don’t stress the mess: a messy house means happy kids play here. I’m fortunate to have a husband who understands that it’s nearly impossible to keep the house perfect with four growing kids. One day my house will be clean– and lonely. That’s not to say: live in a messy house all of the time; just be okay with the messes that are bound to happen.

Choose Your Battles

The toddler stage notably comes with tantrums. Toddlers demand everything and always want to be right.

It’s tempting to want to use every tantrum as a teaching moment; but instead, choose your battles wisely. It’s not worth fighting them on every tantrum. They’ll be alright if you let some things go, just don’t let every thing slide.

Here are some tips to help choose your battles:

  • Try to avoid situations that can trigger your toddler.
  • If they ask for something, and it’s within reason, give it to them. They’d do it themselves if they could. And if you don’t, they’ll eventually learn not to count on you for help. 
  • If it’s truly something they can’t have, explain nicely to them why they can’t have it.

Own Your Feelings

It’s okay if you feel overwhelmed sometimes. Mommin’ is tough. No matter how many kids you have, there will still be those days when your kids are being extra stubborn, your housework keeps piling up, and you just want to run away.

It’s okay to feel these things (just don’t really run away). It is okay cry and scream out to God about this shitty day because it is okay to feel tired and worn out.

What’s important is that you let it out (not in front of the kids). Then you can remind yourself that there’s this little human life who looks up at you with so much love and you can smile again. Because to them you are the best mommy in the whole world. Kids aren’t lying when they say this. 

To them, there is no mom better than you.