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Eight Ways to Think Outside the Box

Everyone always talks about “thinking outside the box.” This simply means that you need to come up with a brand new way to tackle an issue or problem in order to find solutions that the old ways of doing things may not.

Sometimes, though, it’s hard to get over thinking about things the same way. You may need to employ some tactics and techniques to break out of the mold and think outside the box.

  1. Get a Second Opinion – When you’re stuck and cannot come up with any new ideas, you can boost your creativity simply by getting another opinion. Even if the opinion is contrary to yours or out and out wrong, it will stimulate a new part of your brain learning about it, thus triggering new ideas within you.
  2. Ask an Expert – One way to get new ideas is to surround yourself with experts and talk to them regularly. Find someone whose work you admire and reach out. Never be afraid to go out for coffee to talk to an expert about the topic they love. They’ll enjoy it, and you’ll open your mind to facts you maybe did not realize.
  3. Break It Down – Stop trying to figure it out; instead, break it down to the smallest parts. When you do that, you’ll start seeing things differently. For example, if you ever watch the TV show Chopped, one reason some of the cooks end up with such amazing dishes is that they break down the ingredients differently in their mind. Canned chicken becomes protein and celery stalks become salt. Eventually, you realize that you can use each ingredient anywhere protein is used, or salt is used.
  4. Start Over – Sometimes you need to start from the beginning to find the answers. That may require that you reconstruct the thing, situation, or story from the beginning. When you think about murder investigations, this is how they often catch people. They start from the beginning with the victim and learn all they can about the victim’s life. That sometimes seems irrelevant, but it often leads to the killer.
  5. Research – The more research you can read about your topic from every angle, the more likely you are to be able to come up with out-of-the-box solutions and ideas. The more you know about what others know, and what others think, the easier it will be to develop your own ideas and opinions.
  6. Write What You Know – As you learn more, start writing it down or otherwise recording it in a way that you can check your notes. Free writing of what you know, without looking it up and thinking much about it, is a great way to come up with new solutions – as you may do amid the “flow” because your mind knows a lot more subconsciously than it knows consciously.
  7. Create a Mind Map or Outline – Even if you’re not writing something, a mind map or outline (depending on how your brain thinks) will help you organize your thoughts better. It’s a great way to organize ideas. Putting it all in order, and rearranging it and adding things to it that you may not have considered at first, will help.
  8. Change Your Scenery – If all else fails, just get away and change what you’re doing and looking at or thinking. Just stop thinking about it at all. Go for a long walk, go for a swim, do something else and let it go for a bit. This is one of the best ways to come up with solutions. When your mind is at rest, it’s putting all the things you’ve learned together. But you cannot accomplish that if you don’t get away.

Try some of these tips next time you need to think about something in a new way. The truth is, anything you can do to trick your mind into letting go of the old way so that you can come up with new and relevant ways to do something is valid. You can really blow your mind when you start realizing how creative one had to be to come up with the idea of the telephone, the computer, and other technology. But we all have the same equipment and there are likely discoveries and inventions that someone hasn’t even considered yet.

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Taking A Break as an “Influencer”

3 Things to Remember when considering a break:

It is okay to put yourself first. You can’t pour from an empty cup, after all.

“Influencing” is real work. There is so much planning that goes into curating a nice feed. It takes hundreds of photos to find that right one, and then you still doubt if you chose correctly. It’s countless editing apps and filters to make your life more insta-worthy. It’s writing and rewriting that caption. It’s brand negotiations, it’s rejection emails, it’s constantly comparing yourself and competing with thousands of feeds that are very similar to yours. It’s hours of engaging with your followers and reaching out to new accounts to keep up your numbers. It’s a daily struggle to please a finicky following– followers, who will drop you in a second if your square didn’t meet their expectation THAT DAY. It gets EXHAUSTING.

There is no shame in taking a break

Sure, you’ll lose followers–I lost over 1k when I took a year off while I moved and readjusted to life in a new place with a new baby. People may wonder where you went–(most won’t). “Competitors” may notice you “quit.” But, that is okay. There is NO SHAME in putting yourself first. Do something you love. Focus on your real life. Take up a new hobby. You can come back to it later. When you feel less stressed. You can take a week off or you can take a year off, its up to you. It IS your life.

Disconnecting is good for the soul

It’s like a breath of fresh air to have so much time for other things. You don’t have to check your notifications constantly. You don’t have to worry about the next idea. You won’t have a full on panic attack if you misplace your phone…

You free up so many hours to do other things. This is the time to reorganize those closets! (well, it is for me). Do what makes you happy. What have you been putting off?

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Finding Your Creative Style

Creative style is not about what you do but about how you do it. The creative style theory, pioneered by Dr. Michael Kirton, addresses the question of why some ideas succeed and some fail even when all parties are creative. It turns out that how you do things matter. Your style is unique to you because no one can do things the way that you do them.

Not only that; your style has nothing to do with your ability as a creator. You can be a low-level or high-level creative person, but the way you innovate and adapt to different situations is what really matters when it comes to success. Knowing your creative style can help you know how you work best so that you can easily set yourself up for success.

Often when we think of creating something, we think about what others will think.

But, exploring creative outlets is for you.

If you want to create something that you think others might find odd, ugly, or useless, create it anyway. Creativity is personal and therapeutic if you don’t focus on what anyone else thinks. If you are constantly trying to please other people by what you make then you are not going to get any joy from it. I know I spent quite some time worrying about what people will think about @apainterlylife. I didn’t fit in to the Motherhood niche, which is where I wanted to be; and I didn’t feel creative enough for the creator niche, but I loved that space too. I was told that I had to pick one or the other. I had to tone down my style and be like everyone else. Yet, here I am sharing my creative photography in the motherhood realm.

What’s Your Creative Style?

This test is offered by Psychologies.co.uk, and while the test itself may not be totally scientific, it is based on science. You’ll always, of course, do best to go to the real place with a KAI certified practitioner, which is the test mentioned above. However, this one is fun and you can take it right now online. One thing to remember is that according to Kirton, everyone is creative. It’s just the way that you create that’s different.

Finding your creative style will come through experimentation and practice. It can help to journal, draw, get into nature, and to just think. Set up your life so that you have downtime where you can get new ideas and then act on those ideas. Also, you may be high-level or low-level creative, but your style is all your own. You may adapt, or you may innovate, or you may do some of both.

Nothing will build your creativity more than forcing yourself to create consistently. Practicing your craft over and over is the only way to become decent at it. Sitting around thinking about that perfect idea will get you nowhere. You don’t need to achieve perfection with your first try. It doesn’t matter how good or how bad it is. You just need to produce something, anything, to prove that you can to yourself.

Share your work publicly. It will hold you accountable to creating your best work. It will provide feedback for doing better work. And when you see others connect with what you create, it will inspire you and make you care more.

For more inspiration on How to be creative when you don’t know what to create, check out this article over at True You Lifestyle Blog.