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A note on life and love

To my children,

๐“๐“ต๐”€๐“ช๐”‚๐“ผ ๐“‘๐“ฎ ๐“—๐“ธ๐“ท๐“ฎ๐“ผ๐“ฝ…

with yourself and with others. Even when itโ€™s not easy, being honest will save you a lot of time and heartache.

๐“’๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ท๐“ฝ ๐”‚๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ป ๐“ซ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ผ๐“ผ๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ๐“ผ…

focus your energy on the good things. Theyโ€™ll always outweigh the bad in the end.

๐“•๐“ธ๐“ป๐“ฐ๐“ฒ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“•๐“ธ๐“ป๐“ฐ๐“ฎ๐“ฝ.

Grudges only make your heart heavy. Let it go, and let God handle the rest.

๐“‘๐“ฎ ๐“š๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“ฃ๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ญ๐“ฎ๐“ป๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ช๐“ป๐“ฝ๐“ฎ๐“ญ.

This world can be cruel, but you should always choose kindness. Be the light in the darkness.

๐“’๐“ธ๐“ถ๐“ฏ๐“ธ๐“ป๐“ฝ ๐“ž๐“ท๐“ฎ ๐“๐“ท๐“ธ๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ป.

Be gentle with each other when life is hitting hard. We are only human.

๐“š๐“ฎ๐“ฎ๐“น ๐”‚๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ป ๐“น๐“ป๐“ธ๐“ถ๐“ฒ๐“ผ๐“ฎ๐“ผ.

If you say youโ€™re going to do something, do it. Youโ€™re only as good as your word.

๐“‘๐“ฎ ๐“ฃ๐“ป๐“พ๐“ฎ ๐“ฝ๐“ธ ๐“”๐“ช๐“ฌ๐“ฑ ๐“ž๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ป.

Be genuine and be loyal. Be each otherโ€™s biggest advocate and truest friend.

๐“‘๐“ฎ ๐“ข๐“พ๐“น๐“น๐“ธ๐“ป๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ.

Your brothers victory is your victory. Help each other climb those mountains and conquer those dreams.

๐“›๐“ธ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ ๐“ž๐“ท๐“ฎ ๐“๐“ท๐“ธ๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ป

Love makes life worth living. You may not always agree, but look at each other through loving eyes because love conquers all.

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Sensory Play

What is sensory play? “Sensory play is theย exploration of the world through any of the 5 senses: touch; smell; sight; hearing and taste.” Sensory activities are designed to help children develop thinking, language, social-emotional, and physical skills. Sensory play also encourages children to problem-solve while they create, play, and explore.

Sensory play does not have to be complicated. There is a plethora of accounts on Instagram dedicated to sensory play. You can also search “sensory play” on Pinterest for a bounty of creative ideas.

Sensory Play Ideas

Rice Table

Rice tables are a fun activity to begin developing baby’s sense of touch. Fill any medium-sized storage container with uncooked rice. Make sure it’s big enough to add cups or bottles for baby to scoop the rice.

You can also use foods like pasta, or beans; along with spoons and scoops. It’s also fun to bury small toys for baby to discover.

Sensory Bottles

Fill an empty water bottle with small things that are visually interesting. You can use items like marbles, beads, pipe cleaners, glitter, sequins, etc. Anything small and colorful will work for this. Add water and use non-toxic glue to secure the cap back on to ensure spill-free play.

Alternatively, you can mix clear glue with the water to create a sort of “calming bottle.” Add a few drops of food dye and a bit of glitter before gluing the lid shut. Your baby can shake the bottle and watch the glitter resettle more slowly.

Make Musical Instruments

Children tend to enjoy crafting their very own musical instruments. With a little assistance, kids can create a variety of instruments with things found around the house.

It’s pretty simple to put together paper-cup maracas or a tissue-box guitar. All you need are some rubber bands and a box, or cup, and something to fill the maracas with. You can play around with the different sounds things like rice, beans, or even small pebbles make in your maracas.

Ice & Water

Teach your baby about temperature safely with a little bit of water and some frozen miniature toys. Trying to grasp the ice cubes and toys will also help with their hand-eye coordination.ย 

Freeze small toys (like action figures or blocks) into ice and let your baby explore the cold sensation with their hands–(and probably their mouth too, so watch them carefully; and, don’t use anything too small for baby). You can also provide baby-safe things to chip the ice with and warmer water to contrast the cold, and melt the ice.

Play-doh

There are plenty of recipes for making your own dough at home. You can even add color or scents to any recipe.

However, if you don’t want to make your own sensory dough, you can buy play dough almost anywhere. Let baby roll, slice, and chop away the time. Play doughโ€™s squishy consistency is great for working on those fine motor skills. Pounding and rolling is also a great way to let out a little extra energy.

Note: Never leave baby unsupervised when participating in sensory play.

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Top 3 Things You Need When Taking a Roadtrip with Kids

Weโ€™re taking our second summer road trip this week. Weโ€™re driving 10 hours with four kids to see my in-laws.

How do you maintain your sanity during those long hours on the road? Be prepared with entertainment and snacks, and be prepared to make frequent stops. Kids have short attention spans and small bladders. Plan as much of the trip as you can to give them (and you) breaks from the road.

1. Entertainmentโ€” drawing pads, iPads, their favorite toys. Start low-tech and move up to electronics as the trip goes on. Our car turns into a concert. For the most part, that tends to soothe my crew. My seven year old also likes to follow along the route with his iPad and announce where we are.

2. A fully stocked carโ€” that includes snacks, blankets, toys, first aid kit, plastic bags & extra clothes (in case of spills or car sickness). Have everything you could need within reach and out of the trunk.

3. Frequent Stopsโ€” with toddlers, we count on stopping every 2-3 hours. I like to have a general plan that includes possible rest stops and when weโ€™re going to eat. I tend to choose gas stations with restaurants, or chains that I am familiar with. They tend to have cleaner bathrooms. And, of course, we will always hit up a Buceeโ€™s if itโ€™s on our route.

What are some of your tips for the road? Whatโ€™s the longest road trip youโ€™ve ever taken? Iโ€™d love to know.