Posted in Affirmations

21 Affirmations for This Winter

  1. I navigate today with grace.
  2. I’m may be moving more slowly than in the past, but I’m still moving.
  3. I will take things with a gentle approach.
  4. I am grateful to be alive and live this day.
  5. I’ll handle one task at a time and savor it.
  6. It’s completely fine to be in survival mode right now.
  7. There is a divine presence with me and within me, so I’m never alone.
  8. I love myself, therefore I take care of myself.
  9. I believe in myself.
  10. I will not worry about things I cannot control.
  11. I’m proud to be serving my community right now in whatever way I can.
  12. My inner world is tranquil.
  13. I’ll get through this.
  14. There is a wellspring of resilience within me.
  15. I will outlast this. We will outlast this.
  16. I am grateful for what I will accomplish.
  17. I’m vibrating with energy I draw from the universe. Thank you!
  18. I am blessed beyond measure.
  19. I am growing through every experience.
  20. I’m here for a reason and a purpose.
  21. I’m surrounded by more love than I can imagine.
Posted in Lifestyle

Taking A Break as an “Influencer”

3 Things to Remember when considering a break:

It is okay to put yourself first. You can’t pour from an empty cup, after all.

“Influencing” is real work. There is so much planning that goes into curating a nice feed. It takes hundreds of photos to find that right one, and then you still doubt if you chose correctly. It’s countless editing apps and filters to make your life more insta-worthy. It’s writing and rewriting that caption. It’s brand negotiations, it’s rejection emails, it’s constantly comparing yourself and competing with thousands of feeds that are very similar to yours. It’s hours of engaging with your followers and reaching out to new accounts to keep up your numbers. It’s a daily struggle to please a finicky following– followers, who will drop you in a second if your square didn’t meet their expectation THAT DAY. It gets EXHAUSTING.

There is no shame in taking a break

Sure, you’ll lose followers–I lost over 1k when I took a year off while I moved and readjusted to life in a new place with a new baby. People may wonder where you went–(most won’t). “Competitors” may notice you “quit.” But, that is okay. There is NO SHAME in putting yourself first. Do something you love. Focus on your real life. Take up a new hobby. You can come back to it later. When you feel less stressed. You can take a week off or you can take a year off, its up to you. It IS your life.

Disconnecting is good for the soul

It’s like a breath of fresh air to have so much time for other things. You don’t have to check your notifications constantly. You don’t have to worry about the next idea. You won’t have a full on panic attack if you misplace your phone…

You free up so many hours to do other things. This is the time to reorganize those closets! (well, it is for me). Do what makes you happy. What have you been putting off?

Posted in Mom Life

Journaling for Your Happiness

Did you have a diary as a kid? I did. There is something cathartic about writing things down. After my divorce, my therapist even recommended I write down everything that was bothering me because I was having trouble saying it aloud. It’s nice to just get it out– out of your mind, out of your body.

I was hesitant to do it because I didn’t want anyone finding it, reading it, and judging me. I felt ashamed of feeling the way I did. But, I wrote it all down anyway. I wrote down the things that bothered me. I wrote down the big things and the little things. I chronicled my pain and my disappointments, and the few moments of intermittent hope. I also recorded bible verses that spoke to me and quotes that inspired me. And, on some days–when there weren’t any words– I just doodled. I had stacks of notebooks with tear-soaked prayers detailing every little thing that ate at me. Until one day the entries started getting shorter and more hopeful. The doodles got happier. I started counting my blessings again. My notebook started to record my hopes and dreams. I set new goals for my life… and I kind of became obsessed with bullet journals.

According to the University of Rochester Medical Center, journaling is actually a great way to improve your mental health if you’re dealing with stress, depression, or anxiety. It gives your feelings a healthy outlet. That is because having a healthy way to express yourself gives you a little control of what you are feeling. You can see your problems, sort through them, identify your fears and concerns, and give yourself a way to track your progress. It also gives you a chance for some positive self-talk. You can track bad behaviors and identify triggers. And believe it or not, it is good for your body too. Writing can help you improve immune function, decrease risk of illnesses, and keeps your brain sharp.

With all of those benefits, why wouldn’t you start jouranling?

However, since journaling isn’t a cure-all. In addition to journaling, you should maintain a healthy lifestyle for better managing stress, anxiety, and mental health conditions.

A few more things that could help you manage stress:

  • Meditate/pray every day.
  • Eat a healthy, balanced diet.
  • Get in some regular exercise every day.
  • Get plenty of sleep each night.
  • Avoid alcohol and drugs.

Reference:

https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentID=4552&ContentTypeID=1